Christian Dating Advice - What Should You Know
Dec 09 2020 09:30 AM

For many, is their first foray into the dating world. Others have dated in real life and are now turning to online dating in the hopes of finding that special someone. With three out of every five relationships now starting on online dating websites, they must be doing something right. Most people are scared, nervous, and unsure of what to expect. That is why is offering the following advice.
Christian Dating Single Advice
We can understand why most people would be nervous. The trick is to stay calm and not allow those nerves to ruin your date. Here are a few tips to help you stay on an even keel.
Stay Busy and Stay Calm
Occupy yourself the day of the big event by doing things that bring you pleasure and keep you calm. Whether you like to play video games or take long walks in the park; whatever it is that you enjoy, take advantage of it. Try watching your favorite movies or take some time to meditate. The idea is to burn those hours away without thinking too much about the upcoming date.
Other Activities Might Include:

  • Get plenty of rest the night before

  • Stay away from alcohol

  • Read a good book or your favorite bible verses

  • Take a long walk if weather permits (Take your dog to the park)

  • Spend time with your family

  • Enjoy an activity that helps others

  • Be Yourself (Do Not Try Too Hard to Impress)
    Rather than trying to impress your date, simply be yourself. Many people put on a front and try to put their best foot forward. This can backfire and you might come off as something you are not. If you find yourself trying too hard, count to ten, and relax. Take some deep breaths and just be your wonderful self. If the person does not like who you are, it is better to find that out on the first date rather than the third or fourth.
    God is in Control
    Try to remember that God is in control. If it is meant to be, God will let you know. It is easy to forget that leaving it in God’s hands and realizing that He is in control takes all of that pressure off your shoulders. This, in turn, allows you to enjoy your date.
    Christian Dating Advice for Young Men
    One of the things that guarantee a date will either fail or be a very long evening is speculation. Men have a tendency to imagine how they want a date to go. They play it out over and over, coming up with different scenarios where they do something heroic to save the damsel in distress. They worry that they will not be witty enough or that they will forget their social skills and chivalry. Do not think about how you want the date to go and just allow it to happen.
    Unless the two of you have already decided upon a purely casual date, a nice shirt and a tie are a nice touch that your date will appreciate. Do not show up in a pair of torn jeans and a Metallica T-shirt. Your date will also appreciate your going light on the aftershave or cologne. Men who do not wear it often and are nervous about an upcoming date tend to drown themselves in it.
    Lead when dancing, for everything else; allow your date to breathe. Many men will try to make all of the decisions on a date, leaving the woman to wonder what country she woke up in. Give your date some say in what you do, what is ordered from the menu, and even where the conversation goes. Do not talk about yourself all night and dominate the conversation.
    Christian Dating Advice for Young Women
    You want to look your best but be careful of wearing anything that reveals too much. A good rule of thumb is to dress as if you were meeting his parents on the first date. This type of conservative apparel will allow you to look fantastic without looking too available.
    Prepare yourself for a man that is nervous, and unsure about how to act. Studies show that men tend to get much more nervous and worked up before a first date. If your date forgets to open a door or take your chair, it may be that he is nervous and that causes hesitation and forgetfulness. The calmer you are the better off your date will be. Break the ice by letting him know that you are also nervous and that you should both relax a bit.
    Christian Dating Advice for Teenagers
    If you are 18 or 19 years old, chances are you have not dated much. Speak with a parent and/or your pastor for great advice on social etiquette, manners, and how to act around members of the opposite sex.
    God as Chaperone
    Read and know by heart our suggestions for safety when dating. You can know all of the safety tips in the world but if you do not follow them, they are worthless. Your first date should be a special one and an experience that you will remember and cherish for the rest of your life. For this reason, if no other, you will want to try to relax so that you can enjoy it. Remember to put God first and pray together at the onset of your date. This will take a ton of pressure off both of you.