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Intentions first
Every profile states what they're looking for and roughly when. You will never spend a month finding out someone isn't serious — it's the first thing you see.
Launching 2026
Dating for people who mean it.
Most apps are built to keep you swiping. DateToMarry is built to get you married — to the right person, with your intentions on the table from the first message.
Early members get first access and a free founding year. No spam — one email when we open.
Why we're building it
The problem isn't finding people. It's finding people who want the same thing.
Everyone on a dating app looks roughly the same in a grid of photos. You find out six weeks in that one of you wanted a spouse and the other wanted company on Saturdays. We think that mismatch is a design failure, not a dating failure.
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Real people only
ID and photo verification before a profile goes live. If someone appears in your matches, a person actually stood there and proved it.
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Fewer, better matches
A small number of considered introductions rather than an endless deck. Attention is the scarce resource — we'd rather spend yours carefully.
What's coming
Built around the things marriages actually turn on.
Not hobbies and height. The subjects couples argue about years later — money, faith, family, where you'll live, whether there are children in the picture.
Verified profiles
Government ID and a live photo check. Verified badges you can trust, because we did the checking rather than asking you to guess.
Values & compatibility
A serious questionnaire covering faith, children, finances, family closeness and location — weighted by what you say matters most to you.
Timeline matching
Someone hoping to marry within a year and someone thinking “eventually” are not a match. We treat that as data, not an awkward conversation.
Conversations with substance
Guided prompts that surface how someone actually thinks, instead of a fortnight of “hey, how was your weekend”.
Verified video introductions
A short in-app video call before meeting in person. You'll know they are who they said long before you're sitting across a table.
Safety, taken seriously
Optional background screening, safe-meeting checklists, discreet reporting, and moderators who answer.
Privacy by default
Your profile isn't public and isn't indexed by search engines. Photo visibility is yours to control, and you can pause without deleting.
Guidance along the way
Readiness tools and optional coaching from relationship counsellors — for the part after matching, which is the part that decides everything.
Roadmap
How it arrives.
We'd rather open a small, verified community that works than a large one that doesn't.
Now — Waitlist
Founding members
Join the list and help shape what gets built first. Founding members receive a free first year.
Phase 1 — Private beta
Verified profiles & matching
ID verification, the compatibility questionnaire, intention and timeline matching, and messaging. Invitation only, one region at a time.
Phase 2 — Open beta
Video introductions & safety tools
In-app verified video, safe-meeting tools, optional background screening, and full moderation.
Phase 3 — Launch
Guidance & mobile apps
iOS and Android, readiness tools, and optional coaching for couples moving toward engagement.
Be early
If you're dating with a purpose, we're building this for you.
One email when we open the private beta. Nothing else.